We are both 39, almost ready to hit 40, or as I call it the new age of discovery. As for me, I am 5 foot 11 about 230 pounds, a lot more muscular than he is, with brown hair. Tom is about 6 foot 2 about 22 pounds, well tanned and blond. Tom and I have been friends for 15 years, we are both married with kids and we always hang out together.